That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Depends on youThose "Passport Bros" end up marrying bottom tier Filipino/Thai women who will spend their husband's paychecks at the mall.
Not a good strategy in my opinion.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
0-Hedge is definitely a TraderBro blog.I was just about to post this myself. I'm a regular reader at Zero Hedge, one of my favourite alternate news sources.
This. Looks >>>> money.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you ran through enough sloots you'll learn( the hard way) that a woman =a woman, regardless whether she's from Mars or New York or the foofoo bushes of Africa.Those "Passport Bros" end up marrying bottom tier Filipino/Thai women who will spend their husband's paychecks at the mall.
Not a good strategy in my opinion.
Oh , and the 41 y.o has tons of debts , but "waits" to pay them until after he married his Pina girl and flies her over to Europe.. at least he git a job to obtain a Visa..begiee that it was a solid 7 years if welfare, webcam p0rn and call of duty..If you ran through enough sloots you'll learn( the hard way) that a woman =a woman, regardless whether she's from Mars or New York or the foofoo bushes of Africa.
At this point I can't imagine any man becoming a passport bruh. It's highly unlikely that you'll catch a woman whose actually the great fit you wish for. You probably end up with woman who'd be so merciless on your soul she'd make any western Jezebel blush.
Unfortunately I know TWO DUDES who're about to do this..after all these long winded conversations about game ans seduction they just throw it all out the window and believe they'll bypass the laws of nature.
I wont even ask them; " is there 120% genuine DESIRE to begin with? What if she meets other men, you know, you take her into a westen country full of accomplished men who DO take great care of themselves?".
They really believe that these young azz women (19 and 25 while they are 35 and 41) will be their soulmate...
Were the girls at least hot?They really believe that these young azz women (19 and 25 while they are 35 and 41) will be their soulmate...
6,5 maybe 7 . Imo they're both sixes. Not ugly but FAR from special /model tier.Were the girls at least hot?
You might be right, but still her actual beauty is a big factor in how guys make decisions on the spot6,5 maybe 7 . Imo they're both sixes. Not ugly but FAR from special /model tier.
Doesn't even matter.
I hope you domt reason like this when making decisions about women. Her hotness shouldn't be a factor bro. It's should be about how cooperative she is rather than her looks. Looks, especially for women are easily manipulated due to fitness and makeup. Character on te other hand....
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Not for us. But we can be THEIR soulmate...There is no such thing as a soulmate.
Ofcourse it does, i know that. I've been and probably always will be a sucker for female beauty myself.You might be right, but still her actual beauty is a big factor in how guys make decisions on the spot
All this effort to sleep with a 6( most likely lower than this for a decent bunch of men ), it is truly sad![]()
You're repeating a feminist talking point - did you read the article?Those "Passport Bros" end up marrying bottom tier Filipino/Thai women who will spend their husband's paychecks at the mall.
Not a good strategy in my opinion.