Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Depends on youThose "Passport Bros" end up marrying bottom tier Filipino/Thai women who will spend their husband's paychecks at the mall.
Not a good strategy in my opinion.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
0-Hedge is definitely a TraderBro blog.I was just about to post this myself. I'm a regular reader at Zero Hedge, one of my favourite alternate news sources.
This. Looks >>>> money.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you ran through enough sloots you'll learn( the hard way) that a woman =a woman, regardless whether she's from Mars or New York or the foofoo bushes of Africa.Those "Passport Bros" end up marrying bottom tier Filipino/Thai women who will spend their husband's paychecks at the mall.
Not a good strategy in my opinion.
Oh , and the 41 y.o has tons of debts , but "waits" to pay them until after he married his Pina girl and flies her over to Europe.. at least he git a job to obtain a Visa..begiee that it was a solid 7 years if welfare, webcam p0rn and call of duty..If you ran through enough sloots you'll learn( the hard way) that a woman =a woman, regardless whether she's from Mars or New York or the foofoo bushes of Africa.
At this point I can't imagine any man becoming a passport bruh. It's highly unlikely that you'll catch a woman whose actually the great fit you wish for. You probably end up with woman who'd be so merciless on your soul she'd make any western Jezebel blush.
Unfortunately I know TWO DUDES who're about to do this..after all these long winded conversations about game ans seduction they just throw it all out the window and believe they'll bypass the laws of nature.
I wont even ask them; " is there 120% genuine DESIRE to begin with? What if she meets other men, you know, you take her into a westen country full of accomplished men who DO take great care of themselves?".
They really believe that these young azz women (19 and 25 while they are 35 and 41) will be their soulmate...
Were the girls at least hot?They really believe that these young azz women (19 and 25 while they are 35 and 41) will be their soulmate...
6,5 maybe 7 . Imo they're both sixes. Not ugly but FAR from special /model tier.Were the girls at least hot?
You might be right, but still her actual beauty is a big factor in how guys make decisions on the spot6,5 maybe 7 . Imo they're both sixes. Not ugly but FAR from special /model tier.
Doesn't even matter.
I hope you domt reason like this when making decisions about women. Her hotness shouldn't be a factor bro. It's should be about how cooperative she is rather than her looks. Looks, especially for women are easily manipulated due to fitness and makeup. Character on te other hand....
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Not for us. But we can be THEIR soulmate...There is no such thing as a soulmate.
Ofcourse it does, i know that. I've been and probably always will be a sucker for female beauty myself.You might be right, but still her actual beauty is a big factor in how guys make decisions on the spot
All this effort to sleep with a 6( most likely lower than this for a decent bunch of men ), it is truly sad![]()
You're repeating a feminist talking point - did you read the article?Those "Passport Bros" end up marrying bottom tier Filipino/Thai women who will spend their husband's paychecks at the mall.
Not a good strategy in my opinion.