"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Passing on some of my newfound wisdom

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tix said:
and you need better massages......or a chronically sore neck :p
Good sex relieves stress. A good massage (without sex) just causes frustration and more stress. Think about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Good sex relieves stress. A good massage (without sex) just causes frustration and more stress. Think about it.
Good Sex can cause sore bodies....

Solution: sex with an HB masseuse :cool:
 

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a good massage puts me to sleep like a baby.

I am a massage nut.. always have been. I have to have one a week
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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mpimpin said:
Good Sex can cause sore bodies....

Solution: sex with an HB masseuse :cool:
And lay off the ****.... :trouble:
 

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backbreaker said:
a good massage puts me to sleep like a baby.

I am a massage nut.. always have been. I have to have one a week
Massages are nice, but I manage without them. But speaking of "nuts", I need to bust one of them at least every 3 days.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Backbreaker, that line about the purple drank had me busting up, lol! As a fellow brudda here I used to think the race thing got in the way(I prefer latinas myself) and blamed it for a lot of the problems I was having. I've come to realize it's just me. Not that it isn't ever an issue, it is still in 2007, but it can be overcome. However, one thing that often is still a problem is families though. You might win a girl over but if she comes from a family with an old mindset that can present some problems.
 
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