"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Passing on some of my newfound wisdom

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tix said:
and you need better massages......or a chronically sore neck :p
Good sex relieves stress. A good massage (without sex) just causes frustration and more stress. Think about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mpimpin

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Good sex relieves stress. A good massage (without sex) just causes frustration and more stress. Think about it.
Good Sex can cause sore bodies....

Solution: sex with an HB masseuse :cool:
 

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a good massage puts me to sleep like a baby.

I am a massage nut.. always have been. I have to have one a week
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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mpimpin said:
Good Sex can cause sore bodies....

Solution: sex with an HB masseuse :cool:
And lay off the ****.... :trouble:
 

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backbreaker said:
a good massage puts me to sleep like a baby.

I am a massage nut.. always have been. I have to have one a week
Massages are nice, but I manage without them. But speaking of "nuts", I need to bust one of them at least every 3 days.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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speakeasy

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Backbreaker, that line about the purple drank had me busting up, lol! As a fellow brudda here I used to think the race thing got in the way(I prefer latinas myself) and blamed it for a lot of the problems I was having. I've come to realize it's just me. Not that it isn't ever an issue, it is still in 2007, but it can be overcome. However, one thing that often is still a problem is families though. You might win a girl over but if she comes from a family with an old mindset that can present some problems.
 
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