"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Passing on some of my newfound wisdom

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tix said:
and you need better massages......or a chronically sore neck :p
Good sex relieves stress. A good massage (without sex) just causes frustration and more stress. Think about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Good sex relieves stress. A good massage (without sex) just causes frustration and more stress. Think about it.
Good Sex can cause sore bodies....

Solution: sex with an HB masseuse :cool:
 

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a good massage puts me to sleep like a baby.

I am a massage nut.. always have been. I have to have one a week
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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mpimpin said:
Good Sex can cause sore bodies....

Solution: sex with an HB masseuse :cool:
And lay off the ****.... :trouble:
 

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backbreaker said:
a good massage puts me to sleep like a baby.

I am a massage nut.. always have been. I have to have one a week
Massages are nice, but I manage without them. But speaking of "nuts", I need to bust one of them at least every 3 days.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Backbreaker, that line about the purple drank had me busting up, lol! As a fellow brudda here I used to think the race thing got in the way(I prefer latinas myself) and blamed it for a lot of the problems I was having. I've come to realize it's just me. Not that it isn't ever an issue, it is still in 2007, but it can be overcome. However, one thing that often is still a problem is families though. You might win a girl over but if she comes from a family with an old mindset that can present some problems.
 
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