Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The TallOne

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I think the DJ Bible needs to be updated with more information with regards to 'tests' that women do. IMO. What tests they place, and how to counter them.

Anyway...

This one chick that I know has a good interest in me, decides to play the "I'll ignore him game, and see what happens." As what happend today.

I don't chase her, nor do I go out of my way to see her. Unfournately, I was put into a position today where I didn't have a choice. I am a guard at a pool, she is a camp counsler.

I was guarding the "camp swim", and she was in the area herself. I was told that I didn't need to guard, because we already had enough on staff. So, I decide to get my cardio in for the day (had to get it done quickly, was reporting back to work soon), and I start doing laps. She jumps in also, with a few other people. I can tell she is looking my way when I swim, as if she's trying to see if I notice her with other people.

I do my laps, and I hop out, and within minutes, so does she. I knew then, 99.9%, that she was testing me. Espically after the camp left, and she came back into the pool area because she "forgot" something. Yeah, right.

From what little information I have gathered from the DJ Bible, and the search function, the ability to pass this sort of test is to show that you don't care if she hangs out with other people, because you don't come across desperate, correct?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Still, if you are interested in her, you shouldn't completely ignore her existence. At the end of the day, go up to her on your own terms and make some chit chat. She'll be so dying for attention by then that her appreciation for you will be peaked.
 

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I had seen her in the hallway a few hours before, and said "hey, how are you doin" as I walked by her.

When I was moving lane lines (when she came back in) she was walking behind me, and I said "you better not push me in" in a very jokingly manner. She said with a evil grin "why not?" "I said back "Cause, this is the only good shirt I got, and if it gets wet, I'm gonna have to walk around topless" She laughed. I also said "I knew you were thinking of pushing me in.. I know it" She said with a laugh "I didn't think of it till you said somethin, but, I should have" (or somethin to that effect)

I acknowledged her presence, I didn't go outa my way to ignore her. I just didn't make a big fit/pursuit when I saw she was hanging out with other people. Thats all.
 

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Anyone else?
Just don't give a flip about what she does.

If she starts disrespecting you or gets *****y you have failed her test or are doing a fairly poor job managing your time around her.

You are a man who doesn't have time for games. Maintain interest in women that arn't going to act like little girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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