Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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kGand1

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hey DJs!
my girl broke up with me 2 months ago coz i
basically did all the wrong things .... i broke
contact with her until 3wks ago when she heard
i got a new girl so she wanted to hk up with me
coz she apparently feels she's was not over me
and it was true as i came to learn later after laying
her .... when we broke up she got back with an ex
and she told me that she had to break up with him if
we were to hk-up ... i gave her space and time to do that
then she later comes and tell me she 'd rather be friends with me
i haven't contacted her sinc e and i need to know from guys who've been here before ..... can i get her back or should i just ignore the whole thing?

how do you get back with a girl who broke up with you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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move forwards with the new girl...don't make the mistake of going back no matter what she trys on.
 
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