"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pass advice on break up

kGand1

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hey DJs!
my girl broke up with me 2 months ago coz i
basically did all the wrong things .... i broke
contact with her until 3wks ago when she heard
i got a new girl so she wanted to hk up with me
coz she apparently feels she's was not over me
and it was true as i came to learn later after laying
her .... when we broke up she got back with an ex
and she told me that she had to break up with him if
we were to hk-up ... i gave her space and time to do that
then she later comes and tell me she 'd rather be friends with me
i haven't contacted her sinc e and i need to know from guys who've been here before ..... can i get her back or should i just ignore the whole thing?

how do you get back with a girl who broke up with you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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move forwards with the new girl...don't make the mistake of going back no matter what she trys on.
 
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