"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pass advice on break up

kGand1

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hey DJs!
my girl broke up with me 2 months ago coz i
basically did all the wrong things .... i broke
contact with her until 3wks ago when she heard
i got a new girl so she wanted to hk up with me
coz she apparently feels she's was not over me
and it was true as i came to learn later after laying
her .... when we broke up she got back with an ex
and she told me that she had to break up with him if
we were to hk-up ... i gave her space and time to do that
then she later comes and tell me she 'd rather be friends with me
i haven't contacted her sinc e and i need to know from guys who've been here before ..... can i get her back or should i just ignore the whole thing?

how do you get back with a girl who broke up with you?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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move forwards with the new girl...don't make the mistake of going back no matter what she trys on.
 
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