Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Do you have to be the party type in order to get chicks these days? I'm in college but never go to parties (never invited).
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Partying?
- Thread starter Caldus
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
About 80-90% of my pickups have come from partying.
People who say girls who party are sl*ts and you cant meet a decent girl in clubs only say it cause they cant get them. I have met some very pure virgins in clubs, and have had a couple as serious girlfriends. Everyone these days goes to clubs, just because your there doesnt mean you are a sleeze (although in my case, unfortunately, it most probably does).
People who say girls who party are sl*ts and you cant meet a decent girl in clubs only say it cause they cant get them. I have met some very pure virgins in clubs, and have had a couple as serious girlfriends. Everyone these days goes to clubs, just because your there doesnt mean you are a sleeze (although in my case, unfortunately, it most probably does).
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
preferrable but not a requirement.
don't get invited? do the invites!!!!!!
don't get invited? do the invites!!!!!!
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
i forgot.. i just met my 2nd present girlfriend, a pure virgin from a club a few months ago. yes, i am dating two girls. not comparable to others here but this is my limit.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Interesting...
Heh, I would but I live on campus and plus I'm not 21 yet.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So?
I've been doing it since i was 14 And living on Campus shouldnt get in your way of throwing a party. A DJ finds solutions to his problems, he doesnt let his problems prevent him from reaching his goal.
Laterz...
Since when do u have to be 21 to throw a party?
I've been doing it since i was 14 And living on Campus shouldnt get in your way of throwing a party. A DJ finds solutions to his problems, he doesnt let his problems prevent him from reaching his goal.Laterz...