Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Do you have to be the party type in order to get chicks these days? I'm in college but never go to parties (never invited).
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Partying?
- Thread starter Caldus
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
About 80-90% of my pickups have come from partying.
People who say girls who party are sl*ts and you cant meet a decent girl in clubs only say it cause they cant get them. I have met some very pure virgins in clubs, and have had a couple as serious girlfriends. Everyone these days goes to clubs, just because your there doesnt mean you are a sleeze (although in my case, unfortunately, it most probably does).
People who say girls who party are sl*ts and you cant meet a decent girl in clubs only say it cause they cant get them. I have met some very pure virgins in clubs, and have had a couple as serious girlfriends. Everyone these days goes to clubs, just because your there doesnt mean you are a sleeze (although in my case, unfortunately, it most probably does).
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
preferrable but not a requirement.
don't get invited? do the invites!!!!!!
don't get invited? do the invites!!!!!!
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
i forgot.. i just met my 2nd present girlfriend, a pure virgin from a club a few months ago. yes, i am dating two girls. not comparable to others here but this is my limit.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Interesting...
Heh, I would but I live on campus and plus I'm not 21 yet.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So?
I've been doing it since i was 14 And living on Campus shouldnt get in your way of throwing a party. A DJ finds solutions to his problems, he doesnt let his problems prevent him from reaching his goal.
Laterz...
Since when do u have to be 21 to throw a party?
I've been doing it since i was 14 And living on Campus shouldnt get in your way of throwing a party. A DJ finds solutions to his problems, he doesnt let his problems prevent him from reaching his goal.Laterz...