Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Do you have to be the party type in order to get chicks these days? I'm in college but never go to parties (never invited).
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Partying?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
About 80-90% of my pickups have come from partying.
People who say girls who party are sl*ts and you cant meet a decent girl in clubs only say it cause they cant get them. I have met some very pure virgins in clubs, and have had a couple as serious girlfriends. Everyone these days goes to clubs, just because your there doesnt mean you are a sleeze (although in my case, unfortunately, it most probably does).
People who say girls who party are sl*ts and you cant meet a decent girl in clubs only say it cause they cant get them. I have met some very pure virgins in clubs, and have had a couple as serious girlfriends. Everyone these days goes to clubs, just because your there doesnt mean you are a sleeze (although in my case, unfortunately, it most probably does).
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
preferrable but not a requirement.
don't get invited? do the invites!!!!!!
don't get invited? do the invites!!!!!!
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
i forgot.. i just met my 2nd present girlfriend, a pure virgin from a club a few months ago. yes, i am dating two girls. not comparable to others here but this is my limit.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Interesting...
Heh, I would but I live on campus and plus I'm not 21 yet.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So?
I've been doing it since i was 14 And living on Campus shouldnt get in your way of throwing a party. A DJ finds solutions to his problems, he doesnt let his problems prevent him from reaching his goal.
Laterz...
Since when do u have to be 21 to throw a party?
I've been doing it since i was 14 And living on Campus shouldnt get in your way of throwing a party. A DJ finds solutions to his problems, he doesnt let his problems prevent him from reaching his goal.Laterz...