Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Commend this man.Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Get sh*t faced
Fine. At least get tipsy.Originally posted by wavejams007
Lol, guys but seriously, you don't want to get drunk. Hang-overs are real b**ches.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Drink water and take a multivitamin. = No hang over.Originally posted by wavejams007
Lol, guys but seriously, you don't want to get drunk. Hang-overs are real b**ches.
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Does that really work?Originally posted by Vincent
Drink water and take a multivitamin. = No hang over.
Yes it does. Drink like 20 oz's of water to help prevent against dehydration and flush out the excess alcohol in your system before you go to bed and a multivitamin will help return the vitamins you lost.Originally posted by wavejams007
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What are you, a girl?Originally posted by wavejams007
Lol, guys but seriously, you don't want to get drunk. Hang-overs are real b**ches.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Any conversations? Were you the life of the party? Hook us up with details.Originally posted by J-Unit
It was an alright party for my first time, I guess. I didn't drink much. Most girls there were pretty drunk and one was flirting very heavily with me, the house owner seperated us though. At the end of the night I was the only guy at the house, but most of the girls were either my friends or had boyfriends.
It actually does.Originally posted by wavejams007
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