"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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J-Unit

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I got invited to my first party yesterday, I'm not going to know a lot of kids, how should I handle this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wavejams007

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If this is the first party you hve ever been to, you live a sad life. Just kidding. Just act yourself at the arty, don't pretend to be something you are not. Be confident, outgoing, and optimistic. Don't complain much, if at all. And talk to everyone and dance with all the girls.
 

J-Unit

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I just really started to work on my social life now. It didn't exist before. :)
 

white cloud 8

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make sure the party you are going to is not a wiener fest, call in advance to see if girls are showing up.....:crackup:.
 

J-Unit

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I was invited by a girl and its at a girls house and a girl is driving me there. I'll call ahead to see if its weiner fest though, just for you:D .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JSH

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lol, sounds good. The important point is to have fun and to appear as if you are having fun.
 

oakraiderz2

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Get sh*t faced
 

AmazingTricks

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Get sh*t faced
Commend this man. :D

if you never been to a party before and you want to see how you will act at parties just get really drunk and find out!
 

wavejams007

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Lol :D , guys but seriously, you don't want to get drunk. Hang-overs are real b**ches.:down:
 

familyguyfan

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Lol :D , guys but seriously, you don't want to get drunk. Hang-overs are real b**ches.:down:
Fine. At least get tipsy.


For your first one I wouldn't start out getting sh*tfaced, so just get moderately drunk. Enough to have a good time, but not enough to feel like sh*t later.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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J-Unit

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It was an alright party for my first time, I guess. I didn't drink much. Most girls there were pretty drunk and one was flirting very heavily with me, the house owner seperated us though. At the end of the night I was the only guy at the house, but most of the girls were either my friends or had boyfriends.
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Lol :D , guys but seriously, you don't want to get drunk. Hang-overs are real b**ches.:down:
Drink water and take a multivitamin. = No hang over.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by Vincent
Drink water and take a multivitamin. = No hang over.
Does that really work?:confused:
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Does that really work?:confused:
Yes it does. Drink like 20 oz's of water to help prevent against dehydration and flush out the excess alcohol in your system before you go to bed and a multivitamin will help return the vitamins you lost.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bling

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Originally posted by J-Unit
It was an alright party for my first time, I guess. I didn't drink much. Most girls there were pretty drunk and one was flirting very heavily with me, the house owner seperated us though. At the end of the night I was the only guy at the house, but most of the girls were either my friends or had boyfriends.
Any conversations? Were you the life of the party? Hook us up with details.
 
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