well tonite theres going to be a party with a bunch of people i dont know,but some of my friends are going so i wont be totally alone. i stopped by there last nite and there were some fine ladies, but i dont know any of them. i have no experience in a situation like this and i want to end the night at least making out with one of them. any got ideas,tips,stories,whatever that can help me out? thanks guys.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Party with a bunch of people you dont know
- Thread starter mrsoy
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
Tip #1:
Don't go in there with the idea that you should make out with at least one of them.
Tip #2:
Have fun! Make new friends! You're not there to get drunk or to talk with your friends that you already know in and out. You're going there to meet new people (men and women!), to have as much fun as you possibly can.
Tip #3:
Do not give a **** what other people think of you. People go crazy when they're at parties... this is a regular pattern and it should be embraced!
Just make sure you go crazy having fun! Remember, you need more people than just yourself to have fun.
Don't go in there with the idea that you should make out with at least one of them.
Tip #2:
Have fun! Make new friends! You're not there to get drunk or to talk with your friends that you already know in and out. You're going there to meet new people (men and women!), to have as much fun as you possibly can.
Tip #3:
Do not give a **** what other people think of you. People go crazy when they're at parties... this is a regular pattern and it should be embraced!
Just make sure you go crazy having fun! Remember, you need more people than just yourself to have fun.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
dude just shake everybody's hands and introduce yourself gradually and make crazy ass comments, tell crazy ass stories and offer to fill someone's cup up with beer.. Its all about making that person comfortable because they are as shy about you as you are about them.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
what the hell you talking about, you better get drunk!
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
masturbation?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.