"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Party with a bunch of people you dont know

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well tonite theres going to be a party with a bunch of people i dont know,but some of my friends are going so i wont be totally alone. i stopped by there last nite and there were some fine ladies, but i dont know any of them. i have no experience in a situation like this and i want to end the night at least making out with one of them. any got ideas,tips,stories,whatever that can help me out? thanks guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tip #1:
Don't go in there with the idea that you should make out with at least one of them.

Tip #2:
Have fun! Make new friends! You're not there to get drunk or to talk with your friends that you already know in and out. You're going there to meet new people (men and women!), to have as much fun as you possibly can.

Tip #3:
Do not give a **** what other people think of you. People go crazy when they're at parties... this is a regular pattern and it should be embraced!
Just make sure you go crazy having fun! Remember, you need more people than just yourself to have fun.
 
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dude just shake everybody's hands and introduce yourself gradually and make crazy ass comments, tell crazy ass stories and offer to fill someone's cup up with beer.. Its all about making that person comfortable because they are as shy about you as you are about them.
 
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Originally posted by I-am-someone


Tip #2:
Have fun! Make new friends! You're not there to get drunk or to talk with your friends that you already know in and out. You're going there to meet new people (men and women!), to have as much fun as you possibly can.

what the hell you talking about, you better get drunk!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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