"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Party question

Chaching

New Member
Joined
Dec 21, 2005
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Im going to a party tonight and the same girl had a party a couple months before and there was a lot of grinding and everytime i grind i feel like an idiot and im not completely sure how to grind can someone please help me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

splinterkb

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
750
Reaction score
4
Age
40
Location
Minnesota
Get drunk, because when people are dancing and they're drunk no one gives a ****.
 

English_Bloke

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2004
Messages
104
Reaction score
0
As a guy there isnt much you need to do. Be confident in whatever you do, which is just holding her hips or anywhere else you want ;). Most girls do the all the moves and for you it just feels good. Go along with it and enjoy - if you get aroused than the girl knows shes doing a good dance, have fun with it :D !
 

Random Hero

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 16, 2005
Messages
32
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by splinterkb
Get drunk, because when people are dancing and they're drunk no one gives a ****.
Yeah I do this a few times. Its is a good excuse if you look like a dork when your dancing.

When grinding I usually go behind them. I just like it that way. I'll usually change us depending on how into it the girl is.

When your griding from the back her ass is in your crotch. Either keep your hands off her and dance like your in a rap video or keep your hands on her and let them explore. Don't go overboard with the exploration if she isn't into it.

I'll usually keep my hands on her thighs, pockets, on her hands which are resting on her legs or on her cash and prizes.

If your griding from the front keep one leg in between her to do a little stimulation. I'll usually keep on hand on her lower back while the other one isn't touching her or is holding her hand in the air.

The front is easy to get some nice tongue action. Try to lock the eyes sometimes during the grinding session.

From the back get in nice and close. Learn back a bit so she is sort of leaning back on you. Get your face next to hers and go for the kill homie.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top