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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im going to a party tonight and the same girl had a party a couple months before and there was a lot of grinding and everytime i grind i feel like an idiot and im not completely sure how to grind can someone please help me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get drunk, because when people are dancing and they're drunk no one gives a ****.
 

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As a guy there isnt much you need to do. Be confident in whatever you do, which is just holding her hips or anywhere else you want ;). Most girls do the all the moves and for you it just feels good. Go along with it and enjoy - if you get aroused than the girl knows shes doing a good dance, have fun with it :D !
 

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Get drunk, because when people are dancing and they're drunk no one gives a ****.
Yeah I do this a few times. Its is a good excuse if you look like a dork when your dancing.

When grinding I usually go behind them. I just like it that way. I'll usually change us depending on how into it the girl is.

When your griding from the back her ass is in your crotch. Either keep your hands off her and dance like your in a rap video or keep your hands on her and let them explore. Don't go overboard with the exploration if she isn't into it.

I'll usually keep my hands on her thighs, pockets, on her hands which are resting on her legs or on her cash and prizes.

If your griding from the front keep one leg in between her to do a little stimulation. I'll usually keep on hand on her lower back while the other one isn't touching her or is holding her hand in the air.

The front is easy to get some nice tongue action. Try to lock the eyes sometimes during the grinding session.

From the back get in nice and close. Learn back a bit so she is sort of leaning back on you. Get your face next to hers and go for the kill homie.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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