"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Part I - Your princess is in another castle! 40 Common cases reviewed!

loveshogun

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Correction, Nismo. All of your princesses are in MY castle.

Haha. Good post, bud. All of our new year members would do well to run with this advice. Specifically the four things we should ALWAYS be doing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This site has some great threads and this is a succinct version!
well worth the read. many thanks Nis !


CuriousGirl said:
5. The game is unfair - I'd disagree. Oh I would, wouldn't I. But generally I think women see it differently as they don't want sex quick and easy, most want a loving relationship quick and easy, which obviously isn't. So therefore see it as they having drawn the short straw.
It can't hurt to keep that in mind, and it can be used to your advantage in the same way that women use the guys-want-sex thing to their advantage.
Dating/the game is fair when the people in question want the same things from each other.
they may not want quick sex, but they have the option and its an option they take up from time to time. have you ever had a one nighter? or sex within the first couple of dates? could you go out and get laid within 4 hours of reading this?
thats the point, the majority of guys cant, take the blinkers off darling
 

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betheman said:
This site has some great threads and this is a succinct version!
well worth the read. many thanks Nis !




they may not want quick sex, but they have the option and its an option they take up from time to time. have you ever had a one nighter? or sex within the first couple of dates? could you go out and get laid within 4 hours of reading this?
thats the point, the majority of guys cant, take the blinkers off darling
Agreed. While men do hold the relationship card (sort of) and women hold the sex card (absolutely) it's not equal.

Women can get sex as fast as ordering a pizza. Most guys couldn't get a girlfriend/relationship in two or three weeks of trying.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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People here push Lamborghini's to clubs? No wonder I'm not seeing results.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mike32ct said:
Agreed. While men do hold the relationship card (sort of) and women hold the sex card (absolutely) it's not equal.

Women can get sex as fast as ordering a pizza. Most guys couldn't get a girlfriend/relationship in two or three weeks of trying.
I'm glad this thread is stickied!!!

Mike, this here is totally true, yet lots of guys here delude themselves into thinking otherwise.

When you go against reality, reality wins.
 
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I really liked this post. It's humorous but meaningful, direct but insightful, and realistic without sounding bitter.
 

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This thread was so well received that I had to write a sequel! Many thanks to those who read and understand it well!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192273

There will still be posts here that have lots of whining, worrying, etc. and some people just don't get it. :rolleyes: Yes, I will review some of these cases.

There is no cure for stupidity. :crazy:
 

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Whenever I feel like I'm losing a bit of confidence, I'm always hesitant to come to these boards cause (for some reason) I think it'll bring me further down...and I'm always proven wrong. Thanks for the post, reignited the spark (it never should have gone out in the first place)!! :woo:, repped
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mike32ct said:
Agreed. While men do hold the relationship card (sort of) and women hold the sex card (absolutely) it's not equal.

Women can get sex as fast as ordering a pizza. Most guys couldn't get a girlfriend/relationship in two or three weeks of trying.
Yeah but sex with random dudes who don't understand them or their needs will probably not satisfy them.

Seems obvious really, a lot of women like the comfort of a man they like and trust just as much as sex. For many the two go hand in hand. You're viewing it too much from a male perspective, women are completely different creatures.

Too many people on this site think things are so unfair and that women have it great, well guess what women have to deal with periods every month, hormones, having babies, being judged by friends and family constantly against the template of an "ideal woman", beauty magazines, overly competitive/judgemental friends, putting on weight easily, jeleousy which seems far more deadly then what us guys experience...the list goes on.

I'm a dude and no way would i ever want to be reborn as a chick!! Wake up guys and stop complaining.

Great post btw OP!
 

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Viagra4Soul said:
All your princesses belong us.
You stole my thought! Haha.

Kudos on the post nismo.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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