"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Part 3: Part 3 of my confessions...The end of crazykid

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The answer is clear inside you. Not on the surface and not just there. You have to gaze deep in you. Past your thoughts, emotions, instincts. Back in the inner crevice of your body, your mind, your very soul, lies something beyond your control. You can learn from this. This one thing gives you greater power. What goes on, who you trust, what you know. All becomes second knowledge. How you act becomes seconds place. What you are becomes first.

Great post. Transition is something that we must all face sooner or later. Just be careful who you change into.:cool:


See you later, Crazykid. I hope that you have truly found yourself.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eternal

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Suicide? How the hell do you guys get suicide out of this? Ah well.

I love all the haters on here. Is it because you didn't understand it, or did you just not feel like reading it?

''Go out and get a life." Really, I love that. Let us see something: College student, girlfriend, helping start a fraternity, and ass kicker in pool. Nope, no life there. My classes end before 10, so of course I have time to pop in. Deal.

Why does everything on this site have to relate to "how to get girls?" Honestly, do people around here have that little to do that they ONLY live for women? No wonder those people keep comming back here asking "she looked at me! help!?"

*Sigh*
 

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Originally posted by Capt.Jack Sparrow
Aww shucks.. what will I call you now.. Nal.. eter?
Nah. I don't need some people on here going "Hey, there's aNal etear!" :p
 

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Originally posted by eternal
Nah. I don't need some people on here going "Hey, there's aNal etear!" :p
I'll hold you to that ;)

How come you can just change your name :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Vincent
I'll hold you to that ;)

How come you can just change your name :(
Thought about it for a while. Plus, I didn't change my name myself. Moderators can't do that. ;)
 

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Originally posted by eternal
Thought about it for a while. Plus, I didn't change my name myself. Moderators can't do that. ;)
lol. alright.

Your just special I guess ;)
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
lol. alright.

Your just special I guess ;)
That's what my mom said! :p ;)
 

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My mom told me the exact same thing....hmmm.
 

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Originally posted by eternal
Suicide? How the hell do you guys get suicide out of this? Ah well.

I love all the haters on here. Is it because you didn't understand it, or did you just not feel like reading it?

''Go out and get a life." Really, I love that. Let us see something: College student, girlfriend, helping start a fraternity, and ass kicker in pool. Nope, no life there. My classes end before 10, so of course I have time to pop in. Deal.

Why does everything on this site have to relate to "how to get girls?" Honestly, do people around here have that little to do that they ONLY live for women? No wonder those people keep comming back here asking "she looked at me! help!?"

*Sigh*
The reason I replied the way I did was because the whole time you were talking about this and that, I was thinking "okay, so get to the point, enough with the mysticism." I couldn't make heads or tails out of half of it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
The reason I replied the way I did was because the whole time you were talking about this and that, I was thinking "okay, so get to the point, enough with the mysticism." I couldn't make heads or tails out of half of it.
That is my style. Make people think. A mind is a terrible thing to waste. ;)
 

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so you got a new handle? what else can we expect? 8)
 

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"Eternal"

I like it, its a good name. Sounds more mature. Anyways, I didn't see anything negative about your post, Eternal, I thought is was very positive. Especially the part that I quoted above.

It seems clear that most of the guys didn't understand it, didn't read it, or they are simply downright jealous of you, Cra.. or uhm, Eternal.:cool:


Oh well, people can be ****heads sometimes...
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
so you got a new handle? what else can we expect? 8)
Expect the unexpected. ;)

Actually, expect a few new things from me in the coming weeks. None of it will be this "seemingly a rant" crap anymore.
 

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Originally posted by eternal
Expect the unexpected. ;)

Actually, expect a few new things from me in the coming weeks. None of it will be this "seemingly a rant" crap anymore.
Cool. I look forward to it. I remember some kick ass Crazykid posts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A bit late to start kissing ass after shredding the thread.

I liked it. This post make me think. This is somehting some of you could spend your life trying to do and not achieve.

It has also helped me make a few decisions. Thank you.
 

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Kissing ass? True i didn't like the thread, but it's good to see him back to giving good advice instead of mental masterbation.
 

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Originally posted by xomel
you should stick to posts like "this thread has been moved"
Who would move this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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