"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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this is a friendly neighborhood reminder to subject , dimebag darrell .

until your house arrest is over, i will be on your ass to straighten out.

no more sneaking out and getting into trouble.

everyone here needs to encourage him to be a responsible person and to recognize mistakes and be held accountable for them.

until the 26th, i want to see you log in and reply to this thread each nite.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Vasko
whats on the 26th?
when he gets off house arrest if he doesnt continue getting into trouble.

however, he did sneak out this weekend.
good thing he didnt get caught.
 

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i had 3 friends that were on house arrest, but they didnt learn so now they are all in jail!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by jiza101
What did he do ??
Is he ok :woo:
hes ok and i think in another thread he told me it was over drugs and now he is off the drugs.

anyhow i saw how he posted about sneaking out and im trying to keep his butt out of trouble.

if he gets caught sneaking out, the house arrest wont stop on the 26th and things will get worse.

help me out, give him so encouragment, hes coming a long way.
 

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Penktten, if you weren't already getting married, and I were older, I think I would marry you. Wish I had friends or even just acquiantances to look out and support me like you do for dime.:)

Good luck Dime. You can do it. you can do it all night long.
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Penktten, if you weren't already getting married, and I were older, I think I would marry you. Wish I had friends or even just acquiantances to look out and support me like you do for dime.:)

Good luck Dime. You can do it. you can do it all night long.
thats the sweetest thing i heard in a long time:)

i know dime can do this, he just has a little longer to serve at home and then he can go out and play again.

i know he has the ability to stay off the drugs, i know he can find other things to take his mind off any problems he was trying to escape in the first place.

if i can turn my life around, any one can !

thats why i am routing for him.

however he didnt respond to my thread at all yet, which leads me to believe hes not interested in support. i hope thats not the case. there are so many people here that can offer advise to help him thru it.
 
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