"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this is a friendly neighborhood reminder to subject , dimebag darrell .

until your house arrest is over, i will be on your ass to straighten out.

no more sneaking out and getting into trouble.

everyone here needs to encourage him to be a responsible person and to recognize mistakes and be held accountable for them.

until the 26th, i want to see you log in and reply to this thread each nite.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Vasko
whats on the 26th?
when he gets off house arrest if he doesnt continue getting into trouble.

however, he did sneak out this weekend.
good thing he didnt get caught.
 

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i had 3 friends that were on house arrest, but they didnt learn so now they are all in jail!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jiza101
What did he do ??
Is he ok :woo:
hes ok and i think in another thread he told me it was over drugs and now he is off the drugs.

anyhow i saw how he posted about sneaking out and im trying to keep his butt out of trouble.

if he gets caught sneaking out, the house arrest wont stop on the 26th and things will get worse.

help me out, give him so encouragment, hes coming a long way.
 

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Penktten, if you weren't already getting married, and I were older, I think I would marry you. Wish I had friends or even just acquiantances to look out and support me like you do for dime.:)

Good luck Dime. You can do it. you can do it all night long.
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Penktten, if you weren't already getting married, and I were older, I think I would marry you. Wish I had friends or even just acquiantances to look out and support me like you do for dime.:)

Good luck Dime. You can do it. you can do it all night long.
thats the sweetest thing i heard in a long time:)

i know dime can do this, he just has a little longer to serve at home and then he can go out and play again.

i know he has the ability to stay off the drugs, i know he can find other things to take his mind off any problems he was trying to escape in the first place.

if i can turn my life around, any one can !

thats why i am routing for him.

however he didnt respond to my thread at all yet, which leads me to believe hes not interested in support. i hope thats not the case. there are so many people here that can offer advise to help him thru it.
 
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