"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this is a friendly neighborhood reminder to subject , dimebag darrell .

until your house arrest is over, i will be on your ass to straighten out.

no more sneaking out and getting into trouble.

everyone here needs to encourage him to be a responsible person and to recognize mistakes and be held accountable for them.

until the 26th, i want to see you log in and reply to this thread each nite.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Vasko
whats on the 26th?
when he gets off house arrest if he doesnt continue getting into trouble.

however, he did sneak out this weekend.
good thing he didnt get caught.
 

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i had 3 friends that were on house arrest, but they didnt learn so now they are all in jail!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jiza101
What did he do ??
Is he ok :woo:
hes ok and i think in another thread he told me it was over drugs and now he is off the drugs.

anyhow i saw how he posted about sneaking out and im trying to keep his butt out of trouble.

if he gets caught sneaking out, the house arrest wont stop on the 26th and things will get worse.

help me out, give him so encouragment, hes coming a long way.
 

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Penktten, if you weren't already getting married, and I were older, I think I would marry you. Wish I had friends or even just acquiantances to look out and support me like you do for dime.:)

Good luck Dime. You can do it. you can do it all night long.
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Penktten, if you weren't already getting married, and I were older, I think I would marry you. Wish I had friends or even just acquiantances to look out and support me like you do for dime.:)

Good luck Dime. You can do it. you can do it all night long.
thats the sweetest thing i heard in a long time:)

i know dime can do this, he just has a little longer to serve at home and then he can go out and play again.

i know he has the ability to stay off the drugs, i know he can find other things to take his mind off any problems he was trying to escape in the first place.

if i can turn my life around, any one can !

thats why i am routing for him.

however he didnt respond to my thread at all yet, which leads me to believe hes not interested in support. i hope thats not the case. there are so many people here that can offer advise to help him thru it.
 
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