"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Paris Hilton without all that makeup...

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I've never given much consideration to Paris Hilton. i figure the less time i think about her, that's one less person to feed into the hype. Neither did i find her attractive. She was too "barbie doll/popular snobby blonde girl from high school" looking for my taste, not to mention, not busty enough.

Anyway, scanning the news online this morning, i saw pics of her after being released from jail, and wow, she looks so much more pretty without all that makeup. I mean, she's really cute and wholesome looking...nothing like the rich party $lut in all those papparazzi pics.

Sounds like jail was an eye-opener for her. Hopefully, she wasn't kidding when she said she won't act dumb anymore...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she looks 100% better without the makeup
 

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I was gonna say, she looks much healthier after 45 days in the hole.
 

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Maybe I'm not looking at the same pics, but to me she looks like Meryl Streep. Which is fine when you're Meryl Streep's age, but not when you're 26.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was just looking at her post-jail photo. I wasn't sure if it was her choice of clothing, but my first thought was "Damn, she's much hotter."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deus Ex - wow, she does look hot and, for once, classy there. Damn, modelesque even. Best pic i have yet seen of her. BUT, she's been primed by top shelf stylists and make-up artists, no doubt.

Wayword - good point via the pics supplied. You can see her German-Norwegian background in the close up. The Heidi braid accentuates it.

I still can't help my shocking, newfound feelings for her, though! She looks so damn cute, sweet, and girl-next-door-ish! Come to me, Paris! I'll help ya keep the dumb thoughts away!
 

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has anyone ever taken time to think that she didn't stop using makeup.. she just changed "looks"? isntead of going for the hot slut look, now she is going for the innocent I'm a good girl look? you can use makeup without it bieng apparant and I promise you she doesn't look that good in the morning
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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