"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Paris Hilton without all that makeup...

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I've never given much consideration to Paris Hilton. i figure the less time i think about her, that's one less person to feed into the hype. Neither did i find her attractive. She was too "barbie doll/popular snobby blonde girl from high school" looking for my taste, not to mention, not busty enough.

Anyway, scanning the news online this morning, i saw pics of her after being released from jail, and wow, she looks so much more pretty without all that makeup. I mean, she's really cute and wholesome looking...nothing like the rich party $lut in all those papparazzi pics.

Sounds like jail was an eye-opener for her. Hopefully, she wasn't kidding when she said she won't act dumb anymore...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she looks 100% better without the makeup
 

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I was gonna say, she looks much healthier after 45 days in the hole.
 

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Maybe I'm not looking at the same pics, but to me she looks like Meryl Streep. Which is fine when you're Meryl Streep's age, but not when you're 26.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was just looking at her post-jail photo. I wasn't sure if it was her choice of clothing, but my first thought was "Damn, she's much hotter."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Deus Ex - wow, she does look hot and, for once, classy there. Damn, modelesque even. Best pic i have yet seen of her. BUT, she's been primed by top shelf stylists and make-up artists, no doubt.

Wayword - good point via the pics supplied. You can see her German-Norwegian background in the close up. The Heidi braid accentuates it.

I still can't help my shocking, newfound feelings for her, though! She looks so damn cute, sweet, and girl-next-door-ish! Come to me, Paris! I'll help ya keep the dumb thoughts away!
 

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has anyone ever taken time to think that she didn't stop using makeup.. she just changed "looks"? isntead of going for the hot slut look, now she is going for the innocent I'm a good girl look? you can use makeup without it bieng apparant and I promise you she doesn't look that good in the morning
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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