"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Parents/history c1ckblock me.. what would u do in this situation

TheGambino

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Met this girl at gym, great convo, number close.

Her mother c1ckblocks, looking all worried in our direction. She was in the gym too and I was in her class 5 years ago bein one of the annoying guys. I had a lot of beef with my budds with other guys and her sister knows my reputation too but we were good. Never said a wrong word to her mother or sister though but they know my 'badboy' image at school those days...

I texted her that night and she insta replies to all my texts and asks how to spell my name in the end.

Anyway I asked her out three days later and she said its my mothers birthday this weekend so im sory...

Ok I nced her for 3 weeks and saw her at the gym again, she was giving me twice a big smile when she saw me but her parents were watching her all the time.

Today I saw her again and approached for a quick small talk about her weekend and blabla and her father came within a minute when he saw us talking.. and she was looking in his direction all the time when we were talking. So they prolly discussed me.....

anyway I figured to next her 3 weeks ago coz she declined on my date offer the first time and ripped her number since I had some good responding plates going, now I want to try to set up a date again but I got no number-.-

Should I add her on Facebook, problem is her brother and sister will see that and her parents could find out that way.

Not sure what to do here.......... any thoughts broo's?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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don't waste your time, spin more plates
 
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Im not wasting my time adding her on facebook to check wheter shes still interested or not?

Im just asking is it better to add her on facebook and chat for her number again.

Or just wait for weeks till I bump in2 her again and ask her out. Problem is when shes in the gym her family is with her always.
 
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They aren't c*ck blocking you... They just don't want their daughter talking to you. C*ck blocking is like "Well he's creepy and uses girls" or something.

I don't think you see how classic this scenario is... Guy talks to girl... Parents don't like guy so they have a "talk" about him... Girl ends up defying her parents and gets with the guy... Then it ends in a high-speed car chase throughout Manhattan.
 
TheGambino

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She showed high level interest first days it was great, still hate the fact that her parents are involved in us having contact
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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why did you rip her number?
 
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id walk away from this one...unless you want the back of your car getting full of holes from dads shotgun.
 
TheGambino

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I ripped her number because she declined my date offer coz of her mothers birthday. I had a date set up and some plates so I figured shes out. Anyway I saw her again and she showed interest again so I regret the delete lol..

Anyway she accepted my facebook request an hour ago so figured to ask her for her number again and call to set up a date.
 
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