"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Parents/history c1ckblock me.. what would u do in this situation

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Met this girl at gym, great convo, number close.

Her mother c1ckblocks, looking all worried in our direction. She was in the gym too and I was in her class 5 years ago bein one of the annoying guys. I had a lot of beef with my budds with other guys and her sister knows my reputation too but we were good. Never said a wrong word to her mother or sister though but they know my 'badboy' image at school those days...

I texted her that night and she insta replies to all my texts and asks how to spell my name in the end.

Anyway I asked her out three days later and she said its my mothers birthday this weekend so im sory...

Ok I nced her for 3 weeks and saw her at the gym again, she was giving me twice a big smile when she saw me but her parents were watching her all the time.

Today I saw her again and approached for a quick small talk about her weekend and blabla and her father came within a minute when he saw us talking.. and she was looking in his direction all the time when we were talking. So they prolly discussed me.....

anyway I figured to next her 3 weeks ago coz she declined on my date offer the first time and ripped her number since I had some good responding plates going, now I want to try to set up a date again but I got no number-.-

Should I add her on Facebook, problem is her brother and sister will see that and her parents could find out that way.

Not sure what to do here.......... any thoughts broo's?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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don't waste your time, spin more plates
 

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Im not wasting my time adding her on facebook to check wheter shes still interested or not?

Im just asking is it better to add her on facebook and chat for her number again.

Or just wait for weeks till I bump in2 her again and ask her out. Problem is when shes in the gym her family is with her always.
 

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They aren't c*ck blocking you... They just don't want their daughter talking to you. C*ck blocking is like "Well he's creepy and uses girls" or something.

I don't think you see how classic this scenario is... Guy talks to girl... Parents don't like guy so they have a "talk" about him... Girl ends up defying her parents and gets with the guy... Then it ends in a high-speed car chase throughout Manhattan.
 

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She showed high level interest first days it was great, still hate the fact that her parents are involved in us having contact
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why did you rip her number?
 

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id walk away from this one...unless you want the back of your car getting full of holes from dads shotgun.
 

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I ripped her number because she declined my date offer coz of her mothers birthday. I had a date set up and some plates so I figured shes out. Anyway I saw her again and she showed interest again so I regret the delete lol..

Anyway she accepted my facebook request an hour ago so figured to ask her for her number again and call to set up a date.
 
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