"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Parents/history c1ckblock me.. what would u do in this situation

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Met this girl at gym, great convo, number close.

Her mother c1ckblocks, looking all worried in our direction. She was in the gym too and I was in her class 5 years ago bein one of the annoying guys. I had a lot of beef with my budds with other guys and her sister knows my reputation too but we were good. Never said a wrong word to her mother or sister though but they know my 'badboy' image at school those days...

I texted her that night and she insta replies to all my texts and asks how to spell my name in the end.

Anyway I asked her out three days later and she said its my mothers birthday this weekend so im sory...

Ok I nced her for 3 weeks and saw her at the gym again, she was giving me twice a big smile when she saw me but her parents were watching her all the time.

Today I saw her again and approached for a quick small talk about her weekend and blabla and her father came within a minute when he saw us talking.. and she was looking in his direction all the time when we were talking. So they prolly discussed me.....

anyway I figured to next her 3 weeks ago coz she declined on my date offer the first time and ripped her number since I had some good responding plates going, now I want to try to set up a date again but I got no number-.-

Should I add her on Facebook, problem is her brother and sister will see that and her parents could find out that way.

Not sure what to do here.......... any thoughts broo's?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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don't waste your time, spin more plates
 
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Im not wasting my time adding her on facebook to check wheter shes still interested or not?

Im just asking is it better to add her on facebook and chat for her number again.

Or just wait for weeks till I bump in2 her again and ask her out. Problem is when shes in the gym her family is with her always.
 
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They aren't c*ck blocking you... They just don't want their daughter talking to you. C*ck blocking is like "Well he's creepy and uses girls" or something.

I don't think you see how classic this scenario is... Guy talks to girl... Parents don't like guy so they have a "talk" about him... Girl ends up defying her parents and gets with the guy... Then it ends in a high-speed car chase throughout Manhattan.
 
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She showed high level interest first days it was great, still hate the fact that her parents are involved in us having contact
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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why did you rip her number?
 
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id walk away from this one...unless you want the back of your car getting full of holes from dads shotgun.
 
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I ripped her number because she declined my date offer coz of her mothers birthday. I had a date set up and some plates so I figured shes out. Anyway I saw her again and she showed interest again so I regret the delete lol..

Anyway she accepted my facebook request an hour ago so figured to ask her for her number again and call to set up a date.
 
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