"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Parents babysitter....Oooops

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So here's my current situation:

I recently got involved with my parents babysitter (20yo hb7.5)

Now she's a great girl though a bit immature, but not too much.

I do like the girl, but have no interest in having a GF as I got out of a long relationship in May/June and want to stay free for a while.

Now this girl definitely wants me to be her BF. She has stated this on numerous occassions. I do treat her as and feel that she is more than just a F*Buddy, but don't want to be committed right now.

She is very close with my mom and always there.


*Bonus Issue

I rent the 1st floor of my parents house and would definitely be bumping into her or have her showing up when I'm with others. I only have others over right now when it's like 3am. I don't want to hurt her feelings.

I would actually like to persue something with her maybe a few months down the line, but not now.

How do I explain this to her? I dont want to give her up, but think I should since I do care about her.

Advice/Opinions???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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long long long time ago, human species learned that, if you take a dump where you eat/sleep it's gona stink for a while. Congradulations, you just caught up with the rest of us.
 
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Originally posted by Rec_rejection_phobic
long long long time ago, human species learned that, if you take a dump where you eat/sleep it's gona stink for a while. Congradulations, you just caught up with the rest of us.
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It's funny 'cause it's true! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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