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So here's my current situation:

I recently got involved with my parents babysitter (20yo hb7.5)

Now she's a great girl though a bit immature, but not too much.

I do like the girl, but have no interest in having a GF as I got out of a long relationship in May/June and want to stay free for a while.

Now this girl definitely wants me to be her BF. She has stated this on numerous occassions. I do treat her as and feel that she is more than just a F*Buddy, but don't want to be committed right now.

She is very close with my mom and always there.


*Bonus Issue

I rent the 1st floor of my parents house and would definitely be bumping into her or have her showing up when I'm with others. I only have others over right now when it's like 3am. I don't want to hurt her feelings.

I would actually like to persue something with her maybe a few months down the line, but not now.

How do I explain this to her? I dont want to give her up, but think I should since I do care about her.

Advice/Opinions???
 

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long long long time ago, human species learned that, if you take a dump where you eat/sleep it's gona stink for a while. Congradulations, you just caught up with the rest of us.
 
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Originally posted by Rec_rejection_phobic
long long long time ago, human species learned that, if you take a dump where you eat/sleep it's gona stink for a while. Congradulations, you just caught up with the rest of us.
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