"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Parents babysitter....Oooops

BigMike

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So here's my current situation:

I recently got involved with my parents babysitter (20yo hb7.5)

Now she's a great girl though a bit immature, but not too much.

I do like the girl, but have no interest in having a GF as I got out of a long relationship in May/June and want to stay free for a while.

Now this girl definitely wants me to be her BF. She has stated this on numerous occassions. I do treat her as and feel that she is more than just a F*Buddy, but don't want to be committed right now.

She is very close with my mom and always there.


*Bonus Issue

I rent the 1st floor of my parents house and would definitely be bumping into her or have her showing up when I'm with others. I only have others over right now when it's like 3am. I don't want to hurt her feelings.

I would actually like to persue something with her maybe a few months down the line, but not now.

How do I explain this to her? I dont want to give her up, but think I should since I do care about her.

Advice/Opinions???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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long long long time ago, human species learned that, if you take a dump where you eat/sleep it's gona stink for a while. Congradulations, you just caught up with the rest of us.
 

Viking25

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Originally posted by Rec_rejection_phobic
long long long time ago, human species learned that, if you take a dump where you eat/sleep it's gona stink for a while. Congradulations, you just caught up with the rest of us.
It's funny 'cause it's true! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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