She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
agreed!Originally posted by vanwilder
do not mix cardio and weights together. otherwise your good to go
depends upon your phenotype...your diet is secondary. protein before hand will do little or nothing to prevent you from burning muscle. your body adapts to how much cardio you do. bcaas and glutamine are a waste of money. but its pocketbook.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
but does too much cardio have any altercations on the amount of muscle you have.
I do cardio like - 3 times a week (heavy) gym - maybe twice - does too much cardio burn off muscle instead of fat?
Thanks
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Almost puked mate?Originally posted by semag
hey alex.... if you're doin low intensity cardio in the morning, do you still pop somethign before hand??
For example, this morning, i popped a glass of green tea, then went walking. Brisk, from my house to the gym (15 mins) and then on the treadmill, 3.5 mph at 8 incline (15 mins) almost puked, then walked back... (15 mins) and almost puked again on the way back.
Had my bfast about 30 mins after the last walk...
heheh... yeah, i gotta get into the cardio routine. I'm not used to it, and i'm always feeling like it's not enough if I don't break a sweat and such. The gym was stuffy tho, i think that was why i felt a little queasy.Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Almost puked mate?That incline might've been a bit steep?
Alright, let's have some evidence to back this up..Originally posted by tj
depends upon your phenotype...your diet is secondary. protein before hand will do little or nothing to prevent you from burning muscle. your body adapts to how much cardio you do. bcaas and glutamine are a waste of money. but its pocketbook.
one should only do cardio for heart health not fat burning-use full body training to burn fat.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can overdo cardio mate. Take it slow and steady. Do cardio on your offdays at first, monitor this over say two weeks, then added more/longer sessions if necessary.Originally posted by semag
heheh... yeah, i gotta get into the cardio routine. I'm not used to it, and i'm always feeling like it's not enough if I don't break a sweat and such. The gym was stuffy tho, i think that was why i felt a little queasy.
I was good though at the end.