You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
agreed!Originally posted by vanwilder
do not mix cardio and weights together. otherwise your good to go
depends upon your phenotype...your diet is secondary. protein before hand will do little or nothing to prevent you from burning muscle. your body adapts to how much cardio you do. bcaas and glutamine are a waste of money. but its pocketbook.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
but does too much cardio have any altercations on the amount of muscle you have.
I do cardio like - 3 times a week (heavy) gym - maybe twice - does too much cardio burn off muscle instead of fat?
Thanks
Sarge On...
Almost puked mate?Originally posted by semag
hey alex.... if you're doin low intensity cardio in the morning, do you still pop somethign before hand??
For example, this morning, i popped a glass of green tea, then went walking. Brisk, from my house to the gym (15 mins) and then on the treadmill, 3.5 mph at 8 incline (15 mins) almost puked, then walked back... (15 mins) and almost puked again on the way back.
Had my bfast about 30 mins after the last walk...
heheh... yeah, i gotta get into the cardio routine. I'm not used to it, and i'm always feeling like it's not enough if I don't break a sweat and such. The gym was stuffy tho, i think that was why i felt a little queasy.Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Almost puked mate?That incline might've been a bit steep?
Alright, let's have some evidence to back this up..Originally posted by tj
depends upon your phenotype...your diet is secondary. protein before hand will do little or nothing to prevent you from burning muscle. your body adapts to how much cardio you do. bcaas and glutamine are a waste of money. but its pocketbook.
one should only do cardio for heart health not fat burning-use full body training to burn fat.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You can overdo cardio mate. Take it slow and steady. Do cardio on your offdays at first, monitor this over say two weeks, then added more/longer sessions if necessary.Originally posted by semag
heheh... yeah, i gotta get into the cardio routine. I'm not used to it, and i'm always feeling like it's not enough if I don't break a sweat and such. The gym was stuffy tho, i think that was why i felt a little queasy.
I was good though at the end.