"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Paradise Lost

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Anyone read Paradise Lost? I finally got around to reading it and wasn't really impressed.

Milton took basic ideas from the bible and basically added conversations and textual details to it. I know a lot of it's fabricated but it doesn't seem like he really created anything too amazing...at least, not worthy of the "aura" that seems to go with this book.

I mean, I finished it and just kinda said "Okay..." through most of it. I'm not saying it was boring, it just wasn't anything great. It felt kind of like reading Grendel, the story some guy (forgot the name) wrote about the monster in Beowulf. He took and idea that was already established and just made some filler details for it. From a reading perspective it isn't bad, but it's like watching a spinoff show of a popular TV series, ya know?

Anyone else feel this way?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah...I don't think so.
 

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I personally loved Milton's Paradise Lost. You are evaluating the epic poem from a far too contemporary standpoint, what Milton did in describing his protagonist, Satan, was to imbue a storyline that did not cast him as all that was evil but to give him a more human side if you will. Before there were true existentialist thinkers, Milton wrote the books with strong existentialist undertones that clashed with the dogma of moral absolutism; this, by itself, is a fascinating critique of religion and the constructs of faith. Milton's epic was ground-breaking and stirred considerable controversy upon publication. Additionally, I recommend you pay deeper attention to the lines, Milton's work has countless deeper allusions and intertextual references that, if caught, make the book substantially deeper. I think you only read the book at a superficial level.

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I remember reading it in high school and not being too impressed with it. But I will admit my taste in literature back then was not very broad. Good literature to me were the lyrics of Neil Peart on Rush's concept albums... :p

"Hold the red star proudly high in hand!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MVP - No, trust me, I understand what he set out to do. Satan, however, is not the protagonist. There is no overall hero of this story.

You may be right, however, that I'm looking at it from a modern of a perspective. Even if this is true and I acknowledge it, I don't think I'll like the book any more than I do. :eek:
 
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