"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pandora Radio

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I haven't seen anything on here about this so here it is. www.pandora.com It's really great. That's about all I've got, just check it out. You put in an artist or song you like and it plays other songs related to it. It usually works really well. For example, I like Saul Williams so when you do that not only does it play other hip hop with musical styles that are similar, but also similar lyrical themes. I use it a lot, just wanted to share.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DrD77

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i've been using it for about 2 years now. its pretty sick. good way to discover new music
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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:up: One of the best sites on the net. To bad people outside the US can't access it any more; at least not without a little trickery.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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kabatura said:
oh no, why not?
There's no unified method of paying for the rights to the songs for people who listen to it in other countries. They would need to come to an agreement with each and every artist that they play. Talk about administrative overhead!
 

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It is an awesome site...been using it for months. Discovered so many new songs with it.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:up: One of the best sites on the net. To bad people outside the US can't access it any more; at least not without a little trickery.
Yeah, no kidding. I loved the site. I was like "No way!" when I got the restricted access message for the first time. Meh.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Paper Man said:
Yeah, no kidding. I loved the site. I was like "No way!" when I got the restricted access message for the first time. Meh.
Search the net, I know of some guys who have found a couple of ways to access the site.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Search the net, I know of some guys who have found a couple of ways to access the site.
Ah, the magic of Proxy's! :cheer:

Already rollin'. Thanks, Francisco.

EDIT: Well, almost, anyway. When the loading is being done, it says technical difficulties are being experienced. I'll just wait and try again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Paper Man said:
Ah, the magic of Proxy's! :cheer:

Already rollin'. Thanks, Francisco.

EDIT: Well, almost, anyway. When the loading is being done, it says technical difficulties are being experienced. I'll just wait and try again.
Let me know if you make it through, there's more than one route so I've heard. If not I'll ask my buds how they went about doing it.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Let me know if you make it through, there's more than one route so I've heard. If not I'll ask my buds how they went about doing it.
I'd appreciate that, Francisco, since I haven't been lucky since. Everytime I use Proxy's the loading stops due to "technical difficulties".
 
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