"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pandora Radio

kabatura

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I haven't seen anything on here about this so here it is. www.pandora.com It's really great. That's about all I've got, just check it out. You put in an artist or song you like and it plays other songs related to it. It usually works really well. For example, I like Saul Williams so when you do that not only does it play other hip hop with musical styles that are similar, but also similar lyrical themes. I use it a lot, just wanted to share.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i've been using it for about 2 years now. its pretty sick. good way to discover new music
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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:up: One of the best sites on the net. To bad people outside the US can't access it any more; at least not without a little trickery.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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kabatura said:
oh no, why not?
There's no unified method of paying for the rights to the songs for people who listen to it in other countries. They would need to come to an agreement with each and every artist that they play. Talk about administrative overhead!
 

ValleyDJing

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It is an awesome site...been using it for months. Discovered so many new songs with it.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:up: One of the best sites on the net. To bad people outside the US can't access it any more; at least not without a little trickery.
Yeah, no kidding. I loved the site. I was like "No way!" when I got the restricted access message for the first time. Meh.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Paper Man said:
Yeah, no kidding. I loved the site. I was like "No way!" when I got the restricted access message for the first time. Meh.
Search the net, I know of some guys who have found a couple of ways to access the site.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Search the net, I know of some guys who have found a couple of ways to access the site.
Ah, the magic of Proxy's! :cheer:

Already rollin'. Thanks, Francisco.

EDIT: Well, almost, anyway. When the loading is being done, it says technical difficulties are being experienced. I'll just wait and try again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Paper Man said:
Ah, the magic of Proxy's! :cheer:

Already rollin'. Thanks, Francisco.

EDIT: Well, almost, anyway. When the loading is being done, it says technical difficulties are being experienced. I'll just wait and try again.
Let me know if you make it through, there's more than one route so I've heard. If not I'll ask my buds how they went about doing it.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Let me know if you make it through, there's more than one route so I've heard. If not I'll ask my buds how they went about doing it.
I'd appreciate that, Francisco, since I haven't been lucky since. Everytime I use Proxy's the loading stops due to "technical difficulties".
 
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