"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pandora Radio

kabatura

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I haven't seen anything on here about this so here it is. www.pandora.com It's really great. That's about all I've got, just check it out. You put in an artist or song you like and it plays other songs related to it. It usually works really well. For example, I like Saul Williams so when you do that not only does it play other hip hop with musical styles that are similar, but also similar lyrical themes. I use it a lot, just wanted to share.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i've been using it for about 2 years now. its pretty sick. good way to discover new music
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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:up: One of the best sites on the net. To bad people outside the US can't access it any more; at least not without a little trickery.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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kabatura said:
oh no, why not?
There's no unified method of paying for the rights to the songs for people who listen to it in other countries. They would need to come to an agreement with each and every artist that they play. Talk about administrative overhead!
 

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It is an awesome site...been using it for months. Discovered so many new songs with it.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:up: One of the best sites on the net. To bad people outside the US can't access it any more; at least not without a little trickery.
Yeah, no kidding. I loved the site. I was like "No way!" when I got the restricted access message for the first time. Meh.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Paper Man said:
Yeah, no kidding. I loved the site. I was like "No way!" when I got the restricted access message for the first time. Meh.
Search the net, I know of some guys who have found a couple of ways to access the site.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Search the net, I know of some guys who have found a couple of ways to access the site.
Ah, the magic of Proxy's! :cheer:

Already rollin'. Thanks, Francisco.

EDIT: Well, almost, anyway. When the loading is being done, it says technical difficulties are being experienced. I'll just wait and try again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Paper Man said:
Ah, the magic of Proxy's! :cheer:

Already rollin'. Thanks, Francisco.

EDIT: Well, almost, anyway. When the loading is being done, it says technical difficulties are being experienced. I'll just wait and try again.
Let me know if you make it through, there's more than one route so I've heard. If not I'll ask my buds how they went about doing it.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Let me know if you make it through, there's more than one route so I've heard. If not I'll ask my buds how they went about doing it.
I'd appreciate that, Francisco, since I haven't been lucky since. Everytime I use Proxy's the loading stops due to "technical difficulties".
 
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