"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Painfully Single

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I've enjoyed reading the articles off of sosuave.com for some time now. I've gotten a lot of crap from friends about it. But that's not the point of the post.

I've recently graduated from college and will be moving on to getting my masters in November. Unfortunately throughout college I was too swamped with overzealous goals (i.e. taking 24-31 credit hours a term). Because of this my social life went to crap. Now that I'm working and have plenty of free time I'm wanting to get out more but my social skills are pretty much shot, especially with women.

I'm pretty much starting from scratch... again. What can I do to gain that confidence again? There is girl I would like to go out with in a different office but at am a loss in how to approach her. Since it's a work environment and different companies, I'm not sure how to start a conversation. Any help or guidance would be appreciated.

Cheers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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