"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Painfully Single

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I've enjoyed reading the articles off of sosuave.com for some time now. I've gotten a lot of crap from friends about it. But that's not the point of the post.

I've recently graduated from college and will be moving on to getting my masters in November. Unfortunately throughout college I was too swamped with overzealous goals (i.e. taking 24-31 credit hours a term). Because of this my social life went to crap. Now that I'm working and have plenty of free time I'm wanting to get out more but my social skills are pretty much shot, especially with women.

I'm pretty much starting from scratch... again. What can I do to gain that confidence again? There is girl I would like to go out with in a different office but at am a loss in how to approach her. Since it's a work environment and different companies, I'm not sure how to start a conversation. Any help or guidance would be appreciated.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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