"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Painfully Single

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I've enjoyed reading the articles off of sosuave.com for some time now. I've gotten a lot of crap from friends about it. But that's not the point of the post.

I've recently graduated from college and will be moving on to getting my masters in November. Unfortunately throughout college I was too swamped with overzealous goals (i.e. taking 24-31 credit hours a term). Because of this my social life went to crap. Now that I'm working and have plenty of free time I'm wanting to get out more but my social skills are pretty much shot, especially with women.

I'm pretty much starting from scratch... again. What can I do to gain that confidence again? There is girl I would like to go out with in a different office but at am a loss in how to approach her. Since it's a work environment and different companies, I'm not sure how to start a conversation. Any help or guidance would be appreciated.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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