"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've enjoyed reading the articles off of sosuave.com for some time now. I've gotten a lot of crap from friends about it. But that's not the point of the post.

I've recently graduated from college and will be moving on to getting my masters in November. Unfortunately throughout college I was too swamped with overzealous goals (i.e. taking 24-31 credit hours a term). Because of this my social life went to crap. Now that I'm working and have plenty of free time I'm wanting to get out more but my social skills are pretty much shot, especially with women.

I'm pretty much starting from scratch... again. What can I do to gain that confidence again? There is girl I would like to go out with in a different office but at am a loss in how to approach her. Since it's a work environment and different companies, I'm not sure how to start a conversation. Any help or guidance would be appreciated.

Cheers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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