"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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P.U.I. (Posting Under the Influence)

What's your posting poison?

  • Caffeine

    Votes: 10 25.0%
  • Alcohol

    Votes: 13 32.5%
  • Weed

    Votes: 8 20.0%
  • Cocaine

    Votes: 2 5.0%
  • Angel Dust

    Votes: 1 2.5%
  • Exstacy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Mescaline or Peyote

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Shrooms

    Votes: 1 2.5%
  • Acid

    Votes: 1 2.5%
  • Speed or Straight-up Crack

    Votes: 4 10.0%

  • Total voters
    40

NINJA PIMP

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It's time to come clean guys. There are some strange people on this forum with some truly wacked out responses. I find it hard to believe that more than half of you are actually sober when you post.

I know for a fact that Pook prefers a little whiskey with his ******** to combat his guilt for lurking so long on this forum. To each his own. I may smoke a little dankness once in a while, but clean and sober keeps my game tight.

Disclaimer: Don't do drugs. Drugs are bad. :nono:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PRMoon

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uhhh can i pick more the one?
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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hehe my cranky posts are usually alcohol induced.. Coffee is my major vice, otherwise.... i'm wired 24/7
 

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I picked alcohol :D I wonder how many crack heads are on this board?

BTW, how did you get into the moderators corner?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NINJA PIMP

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Originally posted by mroriginal
I picked alcohol :D I wonder how many crack heads are on this board?

BTW, how did you get into the moderators corner?
You guys didn't hear? I am getting a promotion soon and things are going to be a quite DIFFERENT around here.

:trouble:
 

NINJA PIMP

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Damn there are a lot of alcoholics posting here. It seems Pook is not alone!

Coffee is no surprise as I imagine people post from work and sh!t.

Personally I expected wayyy more crackheads and stoners but maybe the poll option proves a little too complicated for the sobriety challenged.

For the record, I am smoking the first and last joint of this week.

*toke* *toke*
HAACCCKKKK...COUGH COUGH COOOUUUUGGGHHH!!!

How sweet it is!
 

ER!C L!VE

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hrm depends on the week. Always caffeine. Sometimes Soma, xanax. Every few months it's oxycodone.
 

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smokin on that dank.


Im quitting today tho...right after i smoke this jay....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Boner da Stoner

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jay ride
jay walk
jay... just jay
 
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I post only when I'm sober. If I'm getting drunk and high I'm getting drunk and high.
 

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Twice as sweet as sugar.
Twice as bitter as salt
And if you get hooked, baby, it's nobody elses fault!
So don't do it!

*sigh* If it were only that easy GMF:(
 

NINJA PIMP

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Shucks... I just realised how shortsighted my poll is. Had not even considered that most of you guys are social phobes who rely on Zoloft, Zanex and god knows what else just so you don't freak out in public.

Hey Mods, would it be possible to add another category for prescription meds?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Usually its Oxycontin, Xanax Bars, Percocets or Lortab, Valliums, Morphine, Patches, Extacy... its all up for grabs.
 
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