Now kid you asked for Pimpology so here is some more. You will notice that there is a difference in style from this board and real pimpin.
If you ain't going to be a pimp then you shouldn't ask for pimp knowledge. There is an old saying "becareful what you ask for"
Isolate the bit.ch!
Isolation is one of the best tactics for copping. Most people are not in control of their own lives like they would appear to be. Most people do rely on a series of safety nets that they use to support them. These come in the form of family, friends, even their daily routines will become comfort buffers. From these safety nets women will get feelings of continuity, safety, and control.
A lot of women will only date a fool if their friends approve! Read this previous posting to see the truth of that:
“Humans want admiration, they want respect. If being
with you would add social value to a woman's life then
she will be all the more likely to feel a strong attraction
for you. On the other hand, if you are a social outcast,
or even just slightly lower than her on the social totem
pole, and would detract from her social life then she will
be much less likely to feel attraction for you.
A woman will be socially attracted to you if you are on
an equal or higher social plane than her. If you are more
popular, better looking, more successful, more admired,
etc. then being with you will be socially acceptable.
However, if you are on a lower social plane than her
because you are not as good looking, not as popular,
unsuccessful, incompetent, stupid, have a bad
reputation, etc. then she will have a BARRIER to
overcome in order to feel attracted to you.
The barrier being SOMEONE ELSE's OPINION of you.
The fewer barriers to attraction a woman has the easier
it will be for her to develop a strong, butterflies in her
stomach, knee-bending attraction.
When a woman sees you she sees you through the eyes
of many people in one instant. She filters you through
her perceived opinions of what others will think.
On some level she thinks, "What will people think if they
see me with that guy?"
You want to position yourself in such a way socially that
your reputation, your appearance, your posture, your
demeanor, your career - pretty much everything about
you - will reflect well on a girl.
That way she will have no social barriers to overcome.
Now, this raises a conflict... you shouldn't have to
change your life and who you are in order to impress a
girl or anyone else for that matter. That is silly,
demeaning, and, above all, ineffective. Centering your
life around women and trying change yourself to please
them actually drives them away.
BUT, self-improvement (continually trying to become
more competent, educated, and successful) will allow
you to change for the right reasons, will take the focus
of your life off of women and put it on yourself, and will
allow you to become admired, respected, and successful.
Self-improvement is the key to becoming
outrageously successful with women.
When you can add tremendous value to a woman's life
socially, emotionally, physically, spiritually, financially,
etc. and she has no barriers to attraction to overcome
she won't be able to help but feel drawn to you.
Not only that, but by seeking to improve yourself you
will feel better, have more self-respect, look better, have
more money, have more fun, feel more confident, live
longer, have control over your life, and enjoy life more…”
One of my little white women had lost both parents years ago and became victims of previous macks before me. To one nigga she gave $43,000.00 to another 13,000.00. Without family she was left at the mercy of life with no safety net. Of course these previous brotha’s did what I did which was to isolate her from her friends as quickly as possible.
I did this by making slight comments about her girlfriend who hates my guts, that she is jealous that my friend has me in her life, and shyt like that. I rarely will go anywhere where her friends are and I am quick to put her down for participating in any events they go to. This may seem like I am insecure but let me assure you that I am not. I am invoking a technique that pimps will use on their victims, that of isolation.
A few months ago her best friend and I got into a huge fight. My girl ran to my rescue like a true champ ready to kick her girls ass for trying to talk **** to me. Yeah!
Your goal is to block out their friends and family and alienate them from the world they are used to. Take them to places where they feel uncomfortable. With the above girl, I constantly took her to places where she wouldn’t dare step foot in. For example I took her to a party put on by some of my old friends. She didn’t know anyone there and stuck by my side like glue. This placed me inside of her mind as being her protector.
With new catches (not cops yet), you gotta get them to spend time in your environment. Break up their habits and make them adopt to new routines that conform to your life. What I would do is make my little trips to different restaurants or places seem like a new adventure.
In this case, I didn’t have to worry about family coming in between my pimpin with this one. I do recommend that you deal with that family situation by suggesting that her parents have lost their desire for fun, and that is how people get old and stale.
What your hinting at here is that she doesn’t’ want to end up like her parents (and most women do not!) so go with the program and have fun. Fun is my biggest selling point. I make being with me fun until they act up and have to be punished. Of course they pay for the fun times, but that’s another story.
This **** works well when your cop is younger and trying to break away from their authoritative parents. Remember that song by Will Smith “parents just don’t understand”? Now you get the picture.
Your goal here is to pull her into your world so that you’re the only source of fun or what ever she is craving in her life. Then she pays with her body and soul.