"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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coolstuff

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Sup, I had a question more directed at the mods, but anyone else who has insight please feel free to answer.

Who has ownership of the posts here on Sosuave? I mean, does Sosuave (aka Allen) "own" what I say or you say on this forum? Is there a copyright on the writing here, on my writing, your writing...or, is whatever is said here free, public domain to be used as we wish? Do we have to cite someone...will I be 'stealing' from someone if I quote their posts from here?

Thanks for any valuable insight.

-coolstuff312
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this is not legal advice

Get it directly from the owners here, or from a licensed attorney, but in general, you are not stealing until you re-publish for profit. The site owner owns the posts here, but that is mostly to keep another person from printing out the DJ Bible and selling it for a profit. If you are not profiting from the republication, it is still plagiarism, so you should still do everything possible to give due credit to the original author, link to the post, etc.
 

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never mind, I'm going to email you. Thanks for the prompt response, you seem knowledgeable.
 

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Thanks Bible Belt, that other thread you linked was very helpful!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The writers of the post have permission to use them elsewhere, so get there permission or allens before doing anything.
 
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