"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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coolstuff

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Sup, I had a question more directed at the mods, but anyone else who has insight please feel free to answer.

Who has ownership of the posts here on Sosuave? I mean, does Sosuave (aka Allen) "own" what I say or you say on this forum? Is there a copyright on the writing here, on my writing, your writing...or, is whatever is said here free, public domain to be used as we wish? Do we have to cite someone...will I be 'stealing' from someone if I quote their posts from here?

Thanks for any valuable insight.

-coolstuff312
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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this is not legal advice

Get it directly from the owners here, or from a licensed attorney, but in general, you are not stealing until you re-publish for profit. The site owner owns the posts here, but that is mostly to keep another person from printing out the DJ Bible and selling it for a profit. If you are not profiting from the republication, it is still plagiarism, so you should still do everything possible to give due credit to the original author, link to the post, etc.
 

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never mind, I'm going to email you. Thanks for the prompt response, you seem knowledgeable.
 

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Thanks Bible Belt, that other thread you linked was very helpful!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The writers of the post have permission to use them elsewhere, so get there permission or allens before doing anything.
 
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