"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ownership of Threads / Writing / Copyrights?

coolstuff

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Sup, I had a question more directed at the mods, but anyone else who has insight please feel free to answer.

Who has ownership of the posts here on Sosuave? I mean, does Sosuave (aka Allen) "own" what I say or you say on this forum? Is there a copyright on the writing here, on my writing, your writing...or, is whatever is said here free, public domain to be used as we wish? Do we have to cite someone...will I be 'stealing' from someone if I quote their posts from here?

Thanks for any valuable insight.

-coolstuff312
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this is not legal advice

Get it directly from the owners here, or from a licensed attorney, but in general, you are not stealing until you re-publish for profit. The site owner owns the posts here, but that is mostly to keep another person from printing out the DJ Bible and selling it for a profit. If you are not profiting from the republication, it is still plagiarism, so you should still do everything possible to give due credit to the original author, link to the post, etc.
 

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never mind, I'm going to email you. Thanks for the prompt response, you seem knowledgeable.
 

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Thanks Bible Belt, that other thread you linked was very helpful!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The writers of the post have permission to use them elsewhere, so get there permission or allens before doing anything.
 
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