"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Owen Cook and his talk about Collaborative vs Competitive frame
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I think it's called "The 7 Secrets of Competitive Beard Growing"
Owen Cook is a fraud and its been proven. Don't listen to that guy or RSD unless it's old Julian material. Just get out there and start learning on your own. The more PUA material you consume, the more weird you become.
A lot of you ****ers are borderline schizophrenic with your paranoia.
Either tell me why he is a fraud or don't make the claim. These types of reactions piss me off.
Go on YouTube and do some research. There are people that used to work for RSD and people who have taken his bootcamps who tell the truth about him. There was even a bootcamp where he went around the club and was blown out on every approach. Then a guy went around and asked all the women that rejected Owen what they though about him. They said Owen was creepy, weird, etc. There is tons of better material out there then listening to RSD unless it's old Julian stuff like I had said. He actually has two really good products (Shift and Pimp) but I wouldn't pay for them.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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What's great about him?
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I think one of my cousins uses Juliens game. Same vibe. Like i can tangibly feel it when I watch Julien in those old products and my cousin. He has gotten some cuties. He also went nuts and became a militant vegan, stealing farmers turkeys and ****.
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I know all about him.
I would say that he's scum of the Earth, but he's honestly just a pu$$y.
It's not just the CNN thing. It's that he's changed since he made it big and his old material is just better. He was more hungry back then and you can tell.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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he quit drugs. was on cocaine and drank a ton during his peak.
Wow thanks captain nitpick.
I thought I could quit wearing nice clothes! Thank god you saved me or I would have made a fool of myself.
Let me clarify what I know here.
Your state of mind dictates 95% of the outcome of any interaction. You don't need to take his statement that looks dont do anything literally. Lets not forget he is a public speaker, not a university professor. In order to keep the public engaged he skips the details and conveys a point rather than explaining it precisely.
I already know that the state of mind dictates the outcome. Looks are still a factor. I wouldn't neglect my looks as keeping myself in shape keeps me sharp and on my toes.
It's whether you believe in yourself, project happiness, trustworthiness, appreciation for life, pride, a sense of purpose, love towards a higher sense of purpose, the ability to enjoy the moment and other such things that garner attention and spike curiosity. A sense of being in control of one's life, also does that.
There are tons of gems in Owen Cooks vids if you want to watch them. He has his flaws but he works hard and does his best to deliver.
He produces the best content and is one of the few that puts his heart into what he does, and from all the self help/dating guys I think he has the best intentions and is in fact even the most transparent about his upbringing and all those things. I'm not a fanboy but I appreciate what he's done and have to commend what I see.
Besides that I think the book is Power vs Force by David Hawkins.
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Ur such a retard. Sarcasm huh. We are discussing looks now... Get a life.
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Next you're gonna tell me to wear a golden peacock tuxedo and perform a magic trick?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bro its the bread and butter
If you want books on collaborative frames try Connect First, How to win friend and influence people, and Leil Lowndes books.
If you want a crash course become a project manager like me and try and convince all the psychopaths and ego kings to play nicely together so you can actually fvcking deliver something. Aka carry them all over the line on your back while they r stabbing u.