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So many times I go to these dates from OLD and the women are almost always packing pounds. They ask me about the gym and tell me they go. But I see them and they must go once a week. I mention the frustration to another female and she says I’m shallow. I mean this stresses the need to talk to women in front of me.
One in particular took a lot of talking to even get her number, she seemed cool, we meet up and she’s prob a size 12. Come on bro. I’m 6’1 175. I need a fit chick.
 

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Then you need to stay off OLD and use it as a complement at most to hitting at women in the gym, lots of women on OLD are there for a reason. A man's value on OLD is not representative of his real value. Becoming worse and worse imo
 

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Which apps are you using?
 

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Hinge and bumble.
same for me, most of the time. You need to get better at filtering those ones out. Any sniff of them being “on the fence” usually means they’re going to disappoint you in the aspect you’re complaining about.

Be selective. Don’t just accept dates to accept dates.
 

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You guys put too much requires on getting laid. If she is attractive enough to get your penis hard, that should be good enough to have sex. No one said you have to marry her, just fvck her. Some of you dudes are acting a bit feminine with the list of requirements just for sex and companionship.

Let's see, sex with a lady who makes your penis hard? Or no, you're too good for her and you'd rather jack off to porn at home and become a quasi-incel? WTF is wrong with some of your dudes.
 

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Anyone who goes to the gym regularly sees these women who are there all the time but aren't ever really doing much. Walking on a flat treadmill at a leisurely pace for a half hour is better than sitting on your couch but you aren't really doing anything to burn calories or get in shape. And don't even get me started on all the women who go just go hang out and be seen/socialize. They never even break a sweat. But they can claim to everyone they know how they hit the gym every day. You won't be able to see it in their ass though.
 

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Anyone who goes to the gym regularly sees these women who are there all the time but aren't ever really doing much. Walking on a flat treadmill at a leisurely pace for a half hour is better than sitting on your couch but you aren't really doing anything to burn calories or get in shape. And don't even get me started on all the women who go just go hang out and be seen/socialize. They never even break a sweat. But they can claim to everyone they know how they hit the gym every day. You won't be able to see it in their ass though.
Yeah, being fit is about having healthy habits. Just taking the stairs instead of the elevator or taking that salad instead of that big mac.
Fit people take smarter decisions and they all add up to the sum of who you are. Good thing the body can't lie, it's very accurate.
 

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So many times I go to these dates from OLD and the women are almost always packing pounds. They ask me about the gym and tell me they go. But I see them and they must go once a week. I mention the frustration to another female and she says I’m shallow. I mean this stresses the need to talk to women in front of me.
One in particular took a lot of talking to even get her number, she seemed cool, we meet up and she’s prob a size 12. Come on bro. I’m 6’1 175. I need a fit chick.
Those swipe apps seem to have the fattest women. Bumble, Tinder. Even Match has a few but not as many.

I told you guys a trick I've used that's saved me from land whales.

Always get a NUMBER!! I ask for a number. Usually the hot chicks hand it out, about 70 percent of the time if they're interested. Getting an actual date is another.

When you get the number use one of those reverse searches like spydialer. Plug the number in and it will tell you who the number belongs to. Now knowing their last name you can go on facebook and search and look at more photos of them.

I saw a pediatrician on Match. She looked like a HB7 in her pics. So when I got her number I did searching on facebook and saw she was a land whale and not good looking. She was also on the morning news for segments too sometimes on Ch5 I saw. More like an HB4 so that saved me a lot of trouble right there thank god. Sucked I figured I was getting a date with a cute doctor, has money and all. Thought I found the golden unicorn on OLD.
 

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Those swipe apps seem to have the fattest women. Bumble, Tinder. Even Match has a few but not as many.

I told you guys a trick I've used that's saved me from land whales.

Always get a NUMBER!! I ask for a number. Usually the hot chicks hand it out, about 70 percent of the time if they're interested. Getting an actual date is another.

When you get the number use one of those reverse searches like spydialer. Plug the number in and it will tell you who the number belongs to. Now knowing their last name you can go on facebook and search and look at more photos of them.

I saw a pediatrician on Match. She looked like a HB7 in her pics. So when I got her number I did searching on facebook and saw she was a land whale and not good looking. She was also on the morning news for segments too sometimes on Ch5 I saw. More like an HB4 so that saved me a lot of trouble right there thank god. Sucked I figured I was getting a date with a cute doctor, has money and all. Thought I found the golden unicorn on OLD.
Yea?

How many have you bed?
 

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So many times I go to these dates from OLD and the women are almost always packing pounds. They ask me about the gym and tell me they go. But I see them and they must go once a week. I mention the frustration to another female and she says I’m shallow. I mean this stresses the need to talk to women in front of me.
One in particular took a lot of talking to even get her number, she seemed cool, we meet up and she’s prob a size 12. Come on bro. I’m 6’1 175. I need a fit chick.
Fatties gravitate to OLD. They dont have to put it all out there. Same reason most guys use to not put it all out there as far as meeting in a realtime group setting or out and about.
 

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Fatties gravitate to OLD. They dont have to put it all out there. Same reason most guys use to not put it all out there as far as meeting in a realtime group setting or out and about.
It depends on the dating app. Match seems to have less fatties versus bumble and tinder and pof and okcupid. Still have time watch it though. Also swipe apps tend to have more fatties because people just swipe and not look at all the pics. I told you guys how to look at their facebooks like I do when I get a number. Its saved me a few times from wasting money on dates with land whales.
 

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You still can’t really tell. I laugh when I’m told I’m being superficial. The thing is I get up at 4 to get to the gym. I could sleep in just like these chicks so I’d like a female with that kind of drive.
 

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I had this histrionic friend who kept telling everyone how much she works out and does classes yet she was getting fatter by the month. I think a lot fatties say they go to the gym to make themselves feel less disgusting. Had to take a break from OLD cause 80% of them are tubs of lard.

I will say this one fatty got me. This was many years ago when OLD started to become popular. She only posted face shots which was suspect. Her face was so fine so I gave in. When I went to pick her up, I swear on my life she was like 300lbs. My mind was blown by not only how big she was, but how skinny her face was that ended up fooling me. Now I focus on the arms as that is a good indicator of how much poundage shes carrying around.
 

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So many times I go to these dates from OLD and the women are almost always packing pounds. They ask me about the gym and tell me they go. But I see them and they must go once a week. I mention the frustration to another female and she says I’m shallow. I mean this stresses the need to talk to women in front of me.
One in particular took a lot of talking to even get her number, she seemed cool, we meet up and she’s prob a size 12. Come on bro. I’m 6’1 175. I need a fit chick.
Nope you’re not shallow. I am 53, very fit and muscular. Here’s my issue with the overweight women. I WORK MY ASS OFF! to stay in shape. I have a very good, although boring diet. I have taken the time to educate myself on what works. So to me it’s an insult and disrespect if she’s not doing the same. It’s very easy to get the right info and take proper action. So, yeah kill me and you fir wanting a woman who’s in shape.
 

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Nope you’re not shallow. I am 53, very fit and muscular. Here’s my issue with the overweight women. I WORK MY ASS OFF! to stay in shape. I have a very good, although boring diet. I have taken the time to educate myself on what works. So to me it’s an insult and disrespect if she’s not doing the same. It’s very easy to get the right info and take proper action. So, yeah kill me and you fir wanting a woman who’s in shape.
Then what gets me at the same time is how do some girls don't workout much at all and yet still stay slim or about average weight and yet don't workout? Do they just starve themselves? Same with some guys. They don't workout much and yet are slim. Me if I don't workout my weight comes on fast, especially my belly area.
 

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Then what gets me at the same time is how do some girls don't workout much at all and yet still stay slim or about average weight and yet don't workout? Do they just starve themselves? Same with some guys. They don't workout much and yet are slim. Me if I don't workout my weight comes on fast, especially my belly area.
Yeah i get that. My ex fiancé was like 105 pounds. Just did yoga but no cardio or weights super fit and trim. She was vegan and just didn’t eat much. On dates she almost always ordered from the appetizer choices.

but I’m like you. No workout and let diet go and I can pack on fat like there’s no tomorrow
 

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Yeah i get that. My ex fiancé was like 105 pounds. Just did yoga but no cardio or weights super fit and trim. She was vegan and just didn’t eat much. On dates she almost always ordered from the appetizer choices.

but I’m like you. No workout and let diet go and I can pack on fat like there’s no tomorrow
Yea, it sucks. I'm also small bone frame too which is odd. Like me I can have slim arms, legs, face, BUT all in the belly. Even when I was fat I still had fairly skinny arms and legs.
 

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So many times I go to these dates from OLD and the women are almost always packing pounds. They ask me about the gym and tell me they go. But I see them and they must go once a week. I mention the frustration to another female and she says I’m shallow. I mean this stresses the need to talk to women in front of me.
One in particular took a lot of talking to even get her number, she seemed cool, we meet up and she’s prob a size 12. Come on bro. I’m 6’1 175. I need a fit chick.
Dude fat women r the best. Why r u picky
 
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