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I had this histrionic friend who kept telling everyone how much she works out and does classes yet she was getting fatter by the month. I think a lot fatties say they go to the gym to make themselves feel less disgusting. Had to take a break from OLD cause 80% of them are tubs of lard.

I will say this one fatty got me. This was many years ago when OLD started to become popular. She only posted face shots which was suspect. Her face was so fine so I gave in. When I went to pick her up, I swear on my life she was like 300lbs. My mind was blown by not only how big she was, but how skinny her face was that ended up fooling me. Now I focus on the arms as that is a good indicator of how much poundage shes carrying around.
You sir, made my day LOL funny stuff
Only face shots never fails as an indicator of whale status, then it's only a matter of to which degree of fat we're talkin'
 
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You sir, made my day LOL funny stuff
Only face shots never fails as an indicator of whale status, then it's only a matter of to which degree of fat we're talkin'
Women stoopid. They think they deserve chad when they totally obese fat aliens.. they think u wont notice on a date that shez fattt..
 

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Met up with another one last night. Now she told me on the phone while setting this up, ‘I’m pretty good to look at ‘. She was another 35 to 40 overweight. But her aggressive attitude took the cake. Had her salad taken back cuz there wasn’t enough lettuce, then practically licked the bowl at the end. Lol. Our first phone call she came across bitchy af but I thought maybe she’s super cute. Nah gotta trust the gut.
 

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Sadly, I’ve always been a bit chubby except for a few years but I hate it on women, I like thin. I can’t stand those massive asses some men seem to like, just looks like a herd animal to me.

I spoke to a girl on match, first ever OLD date. She seemed ok but couldn’t see the body. I arranged to go out and booked the restaurant.

the day before I checked her Facebook and the woman there was not the same woman. I immediately cancelled.

I don’t know why they do it. I mean, my photos aren’t edited. Sure, I wasn’t in a tracksuit but I would never use apps. Why? Because obviously she is going to find out and I’ll feel even worse being rejected. It’s kind of lying.

make up is acceptable. Not complete and outright deception.

I was half going to tell her “I cancelled because you are lying online”. I just said I got back with my ex.

my current wife I met on old. Her profile was a 9 and I suppose she’s a 7 or 8 but she really just enhanced herself a bit. That’s natural.

word to the wise guys. Don’t believe all the “be sexual” and “peacock”. I got a woman well above my league physically because “you were the only one who didn’t seem just interested in sex and you spoke more like a friend”.
 

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every time I met a "fatty" from OLD, they give you that look... "Yea, im not what you thought I was"

go get coffee, chit chat, leave

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happened on an overnight date, she came 300mi by train and knew instantly she wasnt what she presented
I put her to sleep on the sofa and she went back early, she knew.

Am I vain? Maybe, I was 51 and 5'8 70kg with a paralyzed arm... she was 33 5'2 and 75kg


hint:
Pvssy aint pvssy unless its what YOU want for yourself
 
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I had this histrionic friend who kept telling everyone how much she works out and does classes yet she was getting fatter by the month. I think a lot fatties say they go to the gym to make themselves feel less disgusting. Had to take a break from OLD cause 80% of them are tubs of lard.

I will say this one fatty got me. This was many years ago when OLD started to become popular. She only posted face shots which was suspect. Her face was so fine so I gave in. When I went to pick her up, I swear on my life she was like 300lbs. My mind was blown by not only how big she was, but how skinny her face was that ended up fooling me. Now I focus on the arms as that is a good indicator of how much poundage shes carrying around.
I just assume a lack of full body, not taken from overhead or while laying down, shots means they are a whale. There's really no other explanation for them to be absent from a profile.
 

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every time I met a "fatty" from OLD, they give you that look... "Yea, im not what you thought I was"

go get coffee, chit chat, leave

note:
happened on an overnight date, she came 300mi by train and knew instantly she wasnt what she presented
I put her to sleep on the sofa and she went back early, she knew.

Am I vain? Maybe, I was 51 and 5'8 70kg with a paralyzed arm... she was 33 5'2 and 75kg


hint:
Pvssy aint pvssy unless its what YOU want for yourself
She travelled 300mi? Seriously?
 

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Man, as I said before I rarely have this problem. Don't you guys study the pics well?

Also if you're like me GET HER NUMBER. You can do a number search on it, get her last name and then look her up on facebook and find more pics of her. That saved me from going on a date with an HB4 girl who look thinner and prettier on her match profile.

If I can't see their arms it's a no go then.
 

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She travelled 300mi? Seriously?
Many many of my dates have been/are from Saint Petersburg, Russia. (Im in Helsinki).
I refuse to travel to the girl for any date over 30mi away. (puts you in HER frame)

Ive had a few come from China and Russia. I'm in China right now and had a girl fly to the city I am in from 1500mi away.

note: these are not paid dates/prostitutes, I do however pay for travel and food/activities.
 

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Women who are below a man's standard's be it fat women, ugly, etc. still have a good purpose. For men who are in a dating/sex slump or for men who are still working on their self confidence, these kinds of women are perfect. For the man in the slump if he goes and rails a woman that is below his standards that will often break his slump. For men still working on their self confidence the act of dating, fvcking, and general interacting with these women can help him build it. As has already been said, you don't have to marry them. Go out, have some fun, and use them to get out of the slump. If she passes the hard duck test and your duck wants to go play in the mud then let him. If not, still, use her as social skill practice. Nothing at all wrong with this.
 
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Many many of my dates have been/are from Saint Petersburg, Russia. (Im in Helsinki).
I refuse to travel to the girl for any date over 30mi away. (puts you in HER frame)

Ive had a few come from China and Russia. I'm in China right now and had a girl fly to the city I am in from 1500mi away.

note: these are not paid dates/prostitutes, I do however pay for travel and food/activities.
God bless you then. I have had problems with ladies in the past that say 20 miles away is too far. As you can see, western ladies are spoiled. You may have the better overall crop of ladies. Though, the current one does travel every week around 40 miles to see me, but she's a rarity.
 

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Women who are below a man's standard's be it fat women, ugly, etc. still have a good purpose. For men who are in a dating/sex slump or for men who are still working on their self confidence, these kinds of women are perfect. For the man in the slump if he goes and rails a woman that is below his standards that will often break his slump. For men still working on their self confidence the act of dating, fvcking, and general interacting with these women can help him build it. As has already been said, you don't have to marry them. Go out, have some fun, and use them to get out of the slump. If she passes the hard duck test and your duck wants to go play in the mud then let him. If not, still, use her as social skill practice. Nothing at all wrong with this.
Yes, I call them bunker busters to get a dude out of their funk.
 

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God bless you then. I have had problems with ladies in the past that say 20 miles away is too far. As you can see, western ladies are spoiled. You may have the better overall crop of ladies. Though, the current one does travel every week around 40 miles to see me, but she's a rarity.
That one flaked on me because she was 90 miles away and I wanted to meet half way for first date and she got mad. Yea I'm driving over 90 miles for an old date with the chance they no show lol after driving 180 miles total.
 

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That one flaked on me because she was 90 miles away and I wanted to meet half way for first date and she got mad. Yea I'm driving over 90 miles for an old date with the chance they no show lol after driving 180 miles total.
You are an ends to a means. You do not listen, that is your problem. @SeekerOfTheWay has no problems dating in your city, why do you?
 

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You are an ends to a means. You do not listen, that is your problem. @SeekerOfTheWay has no problems dating in your city, why do you?
She dates guys in their 50s. One of them is 57 I believe she told me. The median age in my city fyi is 67. My county isnt crawling with women in their late 20s thru mid 30s. It's a retirement area and oldest county in the state of Florida. Young people dont move around here. No industry other than healthcare. How hard is that to figure out? I can go out to eat on a sat for example and most of the younger people I see are tending bars or waiters. And the younger locals many of them are on drugs and drunks.
 
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She dates guys in their 50s. One of them is 57 I believe she told me. The median age in my city fyi is 67. My county isnt crawling with women in their late 20s thru mid 30s. It's a retirement area and oldest county in the state of Florida. Young people dont move around here. No industry other than healthcare. How hard is that to figure out? I can go out to eat on a sat for example and most of the younger people I see are tending bars or waiters. And the younger locals many of them are on drugs and drunks.
You are doomed for failure (and inceldom) unless you change your location and thought process.
 

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You are doomed for failure (and inceldom) unless you change your location and thought process.
Everyone tells me to move to miami area or tampa or at least hangout in those places.
 

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Sadly, I’ve always been a bit chubby except for a few years but I hate it on women, I like thin. I can’t stand those massive asses some men seem to like, just looks like a herd animal to me.

I spoke to a girl on match, first ever OLD date. She seemed ok but couldn’t see the body. I arranged to go out and booked the restaurant.

the day before I checked her Facebook and the woman there was not the same woman. I immediately cancelled.

I don’t know why they do it. I mean, my photos aren’t edited. Sure, I wasn’t in a tracksuit but I would never use apps. Why? Because obviously she is going to find out and I’ll feel even worse being rejected. It’s kind of lying.

make up is acceptable. Not complete and outright deception.

I was half going to tell her “I cancelled because you are lying online”. I just said I got back with my ex.

my current wife I met on old. Her profile was a 9 and I suppose she’s a 7 or 8 but she really just enhanced herself a bit. That’s natural.

word to the wise guys. Don’t believe all the “be sexual” and “peacock”. I got a woman well above my league physically because “you were the only one who didn’t seem just interested in sex and you spoke more like a friend”.
Many of the posters here are full of hot air macho boys. They watch porn and then emulate what they see the porn guys do but it doesnt work in real life. Avoid the guys who are posting on here everyday and writing novels. Congrats to you and your wife.
 
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