"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Overweight girls that lose substantial weight

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I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tryst type said:
I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
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And they will most likely go back to being fat at some point. Usually what happens is that something important will occur in order for the woman to get into shape - it could be a new relationship, a breakup, a job, a wedding where they'll be bridesmaid, etc. Then, when the novelty wears off and they get settled or they find out they are unhappy for some reason, the natural weight comes back. I've seen this repeatedly.

Usually when a girl gets fat, it means that they are MISERABLE - inside and out. Avoid fat chicks, unless you are turned on by them.
 
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they most likely have stretch marks

I think just having a lot of skin is even more common. It reminds me of a flying squirrel, like they could stretch it out and glide away on the wind.
 
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I'm supposed to meet up with a chick tonight who admitted this morning she was 200+ lbs two years ago and gradually lost weight down to 160.

She seems "curvy" for her height and I wouldn't have ever guessed she was over weight but now knowing that its throwing off my attraction. Don't know what to do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tryst type said:
I'm supposed to meet up with a chick tonight who admitted this morning she was 200+ lbs two years ago and gradually lost weight down to 160.

She seems "curvy" for her height and I wouldn't have ever guessed she was over weight but now knowing that its throwing off my attraction. Don't know what to do
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Drink alcohol.
Turn the lights off.
Profit.
 
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tryst type said:
I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
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I've been there. Makes you wonder if you end up getting into a LTR with her will she balloon back up once she gets comfortable? Yes, she most likely will.
 
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Was with a former fattie once. She looked ok with clothes on but when naked had a nasty scar she said was from the weight loss surgery. I hit it anyway. Like someone just said, LOW lights
 
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